Your Life ( and Style) IS American Idol!

YOUR LIFE AND STYLE IS AMERICAN IDOL

by Tamara Gold

Do you go through your day feeling kind of pitchy?

Or perhaps no one is listening to you and you want to yell out, “Hey dogg, listen up, listen up, listen up. Okay, dogg…..”

You even go to your favorite store, touch a few tubes of the new Tom Ford lipstick line and think, “I’m just not feeling it.”

Your husband hums in the shower and you find yourself saying, “Honey, I love you, but I’m worried about your song selection. With all the great pop songs out there what were you thinking by humming ‘Yellow Submarine?”

What I’m thinking is that life mirrors “American Idol.”

Think about it a moment: Just like on “Idol,” we wake up every morning, style ourselves in the best way possible and then go out on that great stage of life to put on our best performances. Sometimes we win; other times we’re stuck in the bottom three. A detractor can makes our lives miserable. Other times, our personal Simon says, “You went from zero to hero. Well done. ”

What are the deeper lessons of Idol that apply to your life, business and personal style?

Just like Simon tells us on Idol, please stay true to who you are.

It’s time to recognize your own unique talents and stay true to the best vision of you. Think about the singers on Idol who are some mish-mash of what they think everyone else wants them to be as an artist. Suddenly, they’re schitzo!  One week, they’re crooning a country song and the next they’re doing some Zeppelin. It’s confusing because everyone else wonders, “Who is this person?” Just like on Idol when you figure out the best version of you then stick with it. Think about Adam Lambert and Chris Daughtry who were always true to their unique visions. No one had either of them singing show tunes. Those songs just didn’t fit. People who are true to themselves can’t be anything else but beautiful and authentic.

Just like Paula used to tell us on Idol, show us a little more personality.

Don’t hide out. Your personality makes you magnetic and unforgettable. This is true when it comes to your personal style. Perhaps you’re like Crystal Bowersox this season and you dress like you live in a Seattle coffee shop. You know what? She’s perfect because her clothing reflects her true personality. Can you imagine how uncomfortable she would feel if they forced her to wear a tight mini skirt and low-cut shirt? Don’t let others dictate how you will present yourself to the world.

Do it your own way – because the world has enough cookie cutter types.

Your goal is to stand out from all of those who are simply auditioning. You don’t want to look like that cookie cutter girl with the same outfit, the same hair and even the same makeup. Your individuality will make you rise from the pack, and often this does start with clothing. Siobhan Magnus might wear a short tulle skirt with legwarmers and cowboy boots next week, but somehow it all works because she has style to stand out for the rest. Look at Adam Lambert. Like him or not, he commands the room from his ever-growing hair to his pointy-shoes.

Realize that everyone isn’t always a fan.

You can’t go through the day worrying if everyone will vote for you. There will be people who don’t like you or those who judge you harshly. Remember that Simon was rude to Jennifer Hudson and basically told her that she stunk. She was low in the top ten when she got kicked off “Idol,” disappeared and came back to win an Oscar and have a hit CD. Your detractors can and will be wrong. I’m sure Daughtry isn’t still upset that he didn’t win Idol or even come in as the runner up.

Make sure to appreciate the Ellen in your life.

There will always be someone who desperately wants you to win and sees the positive in you. He or she will make you laugh and smile like Ellen does on “Idol.” Cherish this person and let their compliments sink in.

Realize that we all make bad song choices.

Big Mike, I feel your pain on Beatles week. But realize that we all make a bad decision or two in life. You might even do it in front of a lot of people like those Idol contestants. But the key is you put yourself out there and someone will “get” your tune.

Finally, just like on Idol, polish yourself, grow and evolve as you go on.

Think about the Idol contestants on week one vs. the finale of the show. Of course, they’ve had major makeovers from top industry pros. They’ve been polished up and the gold has been tumbled until it shines. Most of the ladies begin as regular people and look like beautiful stars when it’s over. You can work on your own hair, face and clothing in the same manner. Realize it’s not an overnight fix. Heck, it takes those idols all season to really look fabulous.

Oh, one more. Everyone is a winner.

Yes, if you put yourself out there, stay true to who you are and focus on doing your best then how can you not become a winner?

Right, dogg?

RLR Chats with Media Trainer, Sandra Dee Robinson

Sandra Dee Robinson has spent all of her adult life in front of a camera: initially an actor (including major roles on Another World, Sunset Beach, Bold and the Beautiful, General Hospital, Days of Our Lives, guest star on Two and a Half Men, Criminal Minds, Secret Life of an American Teenager and TV movies). She sidelines acting with TV hosting and being a product spokesperson. For the past several years, Sandra has been coaching entertainment reporters and television hosts and she founded Charisma on Camera media training studio to expand her clientele to professionals in any field. She currently assists authors, life coaches, politicians, actors, and business professionals who want to build confidence in the telling of their message and/or they are preparing to utilize TV or Web as a platform to establish themselves as an expert guest, or even host their own show. Sandra loves finding the unique quality in each individual that can magnetize an audience, and watching her clients’ confidence on camera soar as they polish their personal brand for increased recognition and success.

Click below to Listen to the Interview Now!

Sandra Dee Robinson will be hosting a Group Workshop on April 10th, 2010 in L.A. This is a perfect place for you to start to learn how to find your Charisma on Camera….all in the comfortable group environment!

To find out more details and get the RLR Readers Special  Rate  of $165.00 ( usually $199.00) contact sandra@charismaoncamera.com. Make sure to tell her you heard about her through the Red Lipstick Report! She’s also graciously offered RLR Readers a Special 20% discount when you book a private session. Now, that rocks!
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Behind the Scenes @ Your Stand Out Style Image & Media Event

A dream come true! Amazing women from all over the world joined us in the studio for Your Exclusive Stand Out Style Image & Media Event. Our VIP’s….Annette Varoli, Catherine Campart, Cynthia Lou, Dr. Patty Ann, Eva Angel Diamond, Kate Fessler, Kelli Eli, Linda Jones & Mieko Braun… smiled  and stepped into their magnificence!

Tamara Welcomes the VIP’s!                                                    Everyone Get to Know Each Other…

Cynthia Lou checks out the breakfast…                           Makeup Artists, Collette and Jamie beautify faces

Nelly spins her magical brush ( above)

Catherine & Tamara talk Style Strategies with Kelli ( left)

Lesley steps behind the camera, Eva glows

(below)

Smilin’ Faces                                                   Linda & Tamara talk branding

Jamie & Tamara talk “Eyelashes”….Of course! ( below)

Mieko relaxes between set shotsLadies enjoy lunch and wine from Malibu Family Wines…Thank You to Artist and Vintner, Lisa Semler, (below with Lesley Bohm)

A Stand Out Team!

top row – left to right: Ali Quiller, Collette Taber, Catherine Cassidy, Jamie Pagett, Kelly Mustapha.

bottom row – left to right: Chase Rosenberg, Tamara Gold, Lesley Bohm, Haley Austin Missing in action at photo time….Peyton Austin, Lily  Rosenberg, Nelly, Scott…

and our incredible caterers!

THANK YOU ALL FOR A MAGICAL DAY!

P.S. Video footage on it’s way! Stay tuned.

Spotlight Interview with Krista Hearty, Energy Coach

Join me,  and listen to RLR’s January Spotlight Interview with Energy Coach and Body Brilliance Master, Krista Hearty. Krista reveals how you can focus  and tap into more creative energy in your life and business. She teaches actual breathing and grounding techniques during our interview and how you can start tapping in right now! Krista also shares a special offer for RLR readers that you won’t want to miss. Enjoy the audio interview. After you listen to Krista’s wonderful advice, you can reach her at www.yoga4entrepreneurs.com/discoverytamara.

Tips to Look Great on Stage

As you prepare your speech, keep in mind the other aspect of presenting: appearance. Don’t leave your outfit decision until the last minute. Entreprenuer.com provides this easy prep guide for looking your best while presenting:

• Dress for your audience
• Pay attention to outfit details
• Avoid distractions
• Be comfortable

See the complete article here.

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